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Detaching from the outcomes & knowing YOU can't be duplicated.

Updated: Apr 4, 2019

Detaching myself from outcomes has been the root of my success and will continue to be as long as I am consistent with my own personal development and self awareness.


When we detach ourselves from the best, most thought out, creative idea and how wildly successful, in demand, amazing outcome we dream it up to be... we can actually save ourselves from the crash & burn that is bound to happen when our vision of the outcome never shows. We must be able to re-route. We must be able to recognize that this re-routing doesn't make our ideas shitty or our plans less than, the re-routing is just part of the learning. It's part of our own work.


You learn a lot about yourself when things don't go as you expect.


When people steal from you or copy you.

When you don't have the immense support you thought you would.

When you aren't seeing the financial benefits.

When things take more time.

When it's draining.

When growth seems to come to a halt.


Your ability to sit in a plateau stage and not freak out-- combined with your ability to detach from outcomes-- is your key to success.


The second you start changing everything about you / your business / your approach / your being by offering discounts, posting differently, franticly trying to do what others are saying and doing is the second you start failing.


People want you.


They want your story.


They want your passion.


This world is filled with a ton of duplicates and wannabes.

So... force yourself...


When people steal from you or copy you.

When you don't have the immense support you thought you would.

When you aren't seeing the financial benefits.

When things take more time.

When it's draining.

When growth seems to come to a halt.


...don't move.

Stand your ground, in your being, in who the fuck you are, and do it the best because YOU are the best at being YOU. That's the awesome part about competing with people who are trying to do what you do or are trying to shape it and twist it to be theirs... you can't be duplicated. Even if you gave out every answer and broke down step by step how you do things and why you do them. Energy doesn't lie-- and people can sense which side is genuine and which side is not.


It's hard to write this and journal out without sounding like I think that no one can be similar in business. Like duh. Especially in health & fitness, there's only so much that can be different. That's all fine & dandy... but I just hope. I have this strong sense of hope that people are doing and being out of the baseline being authenticity. It would suck to see someone lose themselves in the thought of more.


More money.

More attention.

More followers.

More business.

More whatever.


More any-of-that will only feel like abundance if it comes from you being yourself. It will never ever feel like enough if it comes from you wanting... more... by being someone else.


Trust that this is enough.

Trust in the highs (and the lows).

Lean into the discomfort.

Lean into the unknown.

& breathe as you make your next move out of love and authenticity.





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This is life without the filter,

Katie




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